The Question of Contraceptives
Nonfiction, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Christian Literature
| Author: | H. L. Goudge | ISBN: | 1230001952223 |
| Publisher: | CrossReach Publications | Publication: | October 4, 2017 |
| Imprint: | Language: | English |
| Author: | H. L. Goudge |
| ISBN: | 1230001952223 |
| Publisher: | CrossReach Publications |
| Publication: | October 4, 2017 |
| Imprint: | |
| Language: | English |
Let us begin with a clear understanding both of the problem before us and of the limits of our difference one from another. The great outstanding evil is the widespread refusal of parenthood among all classes except the one where it is least to be desired. England, like France, is choosing the path of national suicide. Now as to this, not only all Christians, but all lovers of their country are at one. Our common duty is to awaken men’s consciences in the matter; difference of opinion about subordinate questions must not be allowed to prevent our co-operation here. The chief issue is, not whether contraceptives are a legitimate way of avoiding parenthood, but whether the avoidance of parenthood is itself legitimate. Of course there may be exceptions, as we shall see; but the normal duty of married people is fruitfulness. There is such a thing as a vocation to a celibate life, but no such thing as a vocation to a childless marriage. We have to preach, not only the beauty and glory of fatherhood and motherhood, but the duty of it. If there is anything more to be detested than contraceptives, it is the selfishness and cowardice which generally lead to their use. If they are employed as they are to-day, does not the blame lie in part at our own door? Have we spoken about marriage and parenthood as we ought to have spoken, and given adequate instruction to our people about them? That a subject is one about which it is difficult to speak is an excellent reason for taking the greatest pains to find the truest thoughts and the best words, but no excuse whatever for silence.
Let us begin with a clear understanding both of the problem before us and of the limits of our difference one from another. The great outstanding evil is the widespread refusal of parenthood among all classes except the one where it is least to be desired. England, like France, is choosing the path of national suicide. Now as to this, not only all Christians, but all lovers of their country are at one. Our common duty is to awaken men’s consciences in the matter; difference of opinion about subordinate questions must not be allowed to prevent our co-operation here. The chief issue is, not whether contraceptives are a legitimate way of avoiding parenthood, but whether the avoidance of parenthood is itself legitimate. Of course there may be exceptions, as we shall see; but the normal duty of married people is fruitfulness. There is such a thing as a vocation to a celibate life, but no such thing as a vocation to a childless marriage. We have to preach, not only the beauty and glory of fatherhood and motherhood, but the duty of it. If there is anything more to be detested than contraceptives, it is the selfishness and cowardice which generally lead to their use. If they are employed as they are to-day, does not the blame lie in part at our own door? Have we spoken about marriage and parenthood as we ought to have spoken, and given adequate instruction to our people about them? That a subject is one about which it is difficult to speak is an excellent reason for taking the greatest pains to find the truest thoughts and the best words, but no excuse whatever for silence.
