The Remarriage Book
Master Common Stressors Together
Nonfiction, Family & Relationships, Relationships, Love/Romance
| Author: | Peter K. Gerlach | ISBN: | 9781469103303 |
| Publisher: | Xlibris US | Publication: | April 14, 2003 |
| Imprint: | Xlibris US | Language: | English |
| Author: | Peter K. Gerlach |
| ISBN: | 9781469103303 |
| Publisher: | Xlibris US |
| Publication: | April 14, 2003 |
| Imprint: | Xlibris US |
| Language: | English |
Note - links below will take you articles and resources in the nonprofit Break the Cycle! Web site (formerly "Stepfamily inFormation"). Use your browsers "back" button to return to Xlibris.com.
Love is not enough...
Typical new stepparents and bioparents (co-parents) usually find that building a multi-home stepfamily is unexpectedly confusing and conflictual. Most recent stepfamily literature estimates that over half of American co-parents who attempt re/marriage after divorce or mate death ultimately re/divorce psychologically or legally - despite their love, maturity, commitment, and experience. The "/" notes that it may be a stepparents first union.
This****unique guidebook results from 27 years research into why so many U.S. couples re/divorce. It appears that there are five factors that combine to often defeat loves brightest dreams:
unseen psychological wounds from childhood in stepfamily adults and kids, and...
blocked grief from two or three major sets of losses in some co-parents and/or stepkids; and...
co-parent unawareness of (a) their inner family of subselves and related psychological wounds; (b) healthy grieving basics; (c) vital parenting and relationship skills and (d) stepfamily realities; and...
These factors and high neediness causing one or both partners to commit to wounded, unaware people (mate + ex mate + stepkids), for the wrong reasons, at the wrong time; and...
Little informed co-parent support available in the media and their community.
My work as a stepfamily therapist since 1981 suggests that courting and re/married partners can work patiently at 12 Projects together to overcome these five re/marital hazards and forge a strong, nourishing re/marriage
Note - links below will take you articles and resources in the nonprofit Break the Cycle! Web site (formerly "Stepfamily inFormation"). Use your browsers "back" button to return to Xlibris.com.
Typical new stepparents and bioparents (co-parents) usually find that building a multi-home stepfamily is unexpectedly confusing and conflictual. Most recent stepfamily literature estimates that over half of American co-parents who attempt re/marriage after divorce or mate death ultimately re/divorce psychologically or legally - despite their love, maturity, commitment, and experience. The "/" notes that it may be a stepparents first union.
This****unique guidebook results from 27 years research into why so many U.S. couples re/divorce. It appears that there are five factors that combine to often defeat loves brightest dreams:
unseen psychological wounds from childhood in stepfamily adults and kids, and...
blocked grief from two or three major sets of losses in some co-parents and/or stepkids; and...
co-parent unawareness of (a) their inner family of subselves and related psychological wounds; (b) healthy grieving basics; (c) vital parenting and relationship skills and (d) stepfamily realities; and...
These factors and high neediness causing one or both partners to commit to wounded, unaware people (mate + ex mate + stepkids), for the wrong reasons, at the wrong time; and...
Little informed co-parent support available in the media and their community.
My work as a stepfamily therapist since 1981 suggests that courting and re/married partners can work patiently at 12 Projects together to overcome these five re/marital hazards and forge a strong, nourishing re/marriage
